Ruth D. Clarence
Unleash the "hot wife" inside of you to enjoy the passionate, fulfilling sex life you deserve!

You're in the right place if you want to:

Turn up the heat on your
love life with your husband!
Become a
Be the great lover
God intended you to be!
Unleash that HOT WIFE
inside of you to enjoy the passionate, fulfilling sex life you deserve!

Maybe You Are ...

Of a boring, ho-hum lacklustre sex life. Sex feels like a thankless chore.
Sick and Tired
With your intimacy.
you're just too tired, angry and stressed out to feel sexy.
Ever since the kids arrived and life got busier, your libido is at an all-time low.
Because you feel miles away from the man next to you in bed.
by his lack of interest at times Or his overt/non - stop interest.

Or Maybe You Are a Sexually Satisifed Woman and You Wish To:

Gain even more confidence between the sheets.
Acquire new creative, fun, affordable ideas for hot monogamy to bring fresh energy to your relationship.
Learn more about  how your husband is uniquely wired.
Obtain Biblical directives on how to enjoy a God-honoring deeper, stronger intimate life.
Communicate on a deeper level about your own needs and wants.

Claim yours FREE

Yes! I want these fun, creative, affordable FIRESTARTERS!

Who I Am and Why I Can Help You Take Your Sex Life to the Next Level:

My name is Ruth Clarence.  I've been married to my wonderful husband Simon for more than 30 years, have two young adult married children and am a grandmother.  I've been a pastor's wife and a school teacher.


These days, I'm known as the "Christian Dr. Ruth" or the "Sex Lady"


I am a counsellor /coach who has published two best-selling books, entitled, Hot and Holy Lady and Firestarters.


Over the past two decades, I've appeared on many radio and TV shows, and have traveled the world conducting live seminars to over 20,000 women.


Common Questions 

Here's just a sneak peek of what you'll learn in my course.

– For a $97.00


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Maybe your sex life is

You need to get re-energized, refueled, and revitalized. YOU'RE NOT ALONE!

I'd love to support you and help you make those intimate moments behind the bedroom door magical again!

Let me help you claim the SATISFYING, EXHILARATING sex life God wants you to have!

© John McPherson (Used by permission)


Engaged Gals

Overcome your fears and inhibitions - Be relaxed, confident, and empowered to be the ‘hottie’ you dreamed about becoming!

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Newlywed Ladies

I can help you find your way around a new king sized mattress and start you off with much practical counsel, proven strategies, and romantic tips to ensure you enjoy the passionate sex life you dreamed of.


Busy Mommas

Connect with your husband emotionally. Practical creative strategies on how to regain YOUR sexual passion and move YOUR sex life from the back burner to the piping hot front burner.

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Menopausal Women

Discover the secrets to enjoying a great intimate life even after 50.


I'm here to guide you!

For a limited time only just $97.00!


• Consists of 8 modules designed to give heterosexual, monogamous, engaged/married women of all ages candid, frank talk and Biblical truth about sex.  


• Each module consists of several 5-15 minute sections with accompanying handouts and study guide.


• When you enroll in my online course, you will be assigned a private password to log on to the site anytime you wish.


• Access the audio or video modules in the comfort of your own home, listen to them in the car, or at the gym – virtually any time at your convenience.


​• Binge watch or slowly, methodically work through the course at your leisure.  Your choice.

• See FAQ for complete course description.

(REG. $397.00)

• Don’t suffer in silence! 

• Eliminate stress, anxiety. 

• Replace with peace, calm, and passion. 

• Ignite your Intimacy! 

• Enjoy HOT monogamy!

• Gain fresh energy, be refueled, refreshed!

• Transform your sex life – Take to next level.

• Boost Your Confidence in the Bedroom.

A note from Jenna...

"I felt the course opened my eyes to areas that I had overlooked during our years of dating. It prepared me for some of the more realistic struggles ahead in marriage rather than being caught up in the clouds. I enjoyed her humor coupled with Biblical truth and would highly recommend the course to anyone engaged or married."

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In addition to the course you will receive:

Ruth's HOT & HOLY
Additional Private Coaching
Can be purchased if desired.
Guest Contributors Presentations
By medical doctors, pelvic floor specialist, sex therapist, fitness instructor.
 80 Creative, Fun, Affordable Ideas 
To add spark and sizzle to your Sex Life... Ignite your Intimacy!!!  
I’ve only given you a first taste of all the crucial, in-depth content in these modules. There’s much, much more to help you get your sex life with your husband back on the right track - God’s track!

Does God Care About Your Sex Life?

You Bet He Does!!

It was His idea for us to delight in our sexual intimacy and for sex to be a great perk in marriage — intended for pleasure!!

I look forward to partnering with you to create and maintain a top-drawer love life…Oh la la!

Warmly, Ruth, 


The Hot and Holy Lady

P.S. This course makes a great wedding, shower or anniversary gift!

Purchase this course for a daughter, granddaughter, or friend.

Invest in their relationship! Set them up for success!!


Become a HOT and HOLY lady!

Get the coaching you need in the convenience of your own home, at any time!


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